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Rising above the debate

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Today, the New York Times has a “Room for Debate” feature that discusses the case for and against changing incentives for living kidney donation.

These are smart people, talking about complex ideas, making arguments they passionately believe in.

Fantastic! Complex medical, ethical, and socio-economic issues should invite the best minds in the country to contribute their research and knowledge to finding better solutions. I am always happy to see the brilliant people put their effort towards saving more lives through organ and tissue donation.

However, as the staff and volunteers at the OPOs and transplant centers that make donation and transplant possible *under our current, ethical system of compassionate, altruistic donation and transplantation*, we sometimes hear more about the myths these smart discussions stir up, than about the solutions the debates propose.

Debates are debates because people have the time, energy, research, and resources to engage in an extended discussion about a complicated issue.  Having a long, intense conversation with a person standing at an elevator about a complicated issue with ample time for research and rebuttal is just not possible!

I frequently tell the people I train: many times, when speaking about a passionate belief in donation and transplantation, you might well be prepared to have the debate with a person who disagrees with your donation decision. The problem isn’t whether or not you are ready to engage that person in a discussion, the problem is 1) whether that person is ready to listen and engage in that discussion and 2) whether that person has the time and space and emotional tools to engage in that discussion.

It’s not you, it’s them! And they are the intended audience–so meet them where they are, not where you already stand.

Today, if this article raises questions in your community and invigorates a some myths or questions that you need to address with fact, rise in altitude. Here are three good turns of phrase to rise above a debate you and your audience don’t have the bandwith for during a quick conversation–while putting forth the life-saving message you stand for *right now* as an advocate:

  1. Gosh, I’m not a surgeon or legislator or bioethicist. What I can tell you is that many thousands of people on the wait list die every year. Right now, you and I can help those people sick and waiting on the list by saying YES to donation and transplantation as registered donors. If the American public decides to make improvements to that system, with new programs or legislation, I certainly would support any efforts to help the 122,000 folks who are sick and slowly dying on the wait list.
  2. Goodness, that’s in the news again, right? Well, I’m no expert on bioethics or public health policy, but what I can tell you is that registered donors save lives. What you and I can do right now to help those people is make a donation decision, and tell that decision to family and friends. As with any other public health issue, I want the doctors and scientists working on this have the funding and support they need to save the 122,000 sick people who are in need of a transplant today.
  3. A lot of very smart and passionate people are working on ideas to help save the lives of 122,000 people dying on the wait list today. What I can also tell you is that donation and transplantation need support. You know the great work done by ALS advocates with the ice bucket challenge? In the field of donation and transplantation, we need debate, discussion, funding and new ideas to solve the big problem of regular folks getting very, very sick and not receiving a life-saving transplant in time. I look forward to seeing what Americans can do to register more donors and save more lives as people debate possible changes in policy!

Do you like these ideas? So do the good people at Gift of Hope, OneLegacy, Donor Alliance, LifeSource, IOPO, and many more OPOs and partners in the field! I run entire trainings full of tools and tips just like this to help staff and volunteers stay positive, passionate, and on-point when telling the life-saving story of donation and transplantation in our communities. Email today to find out how I can help your organization rise in altitude to tell a more powerful story, and save more lives.

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